Saturday, July 17, 2010

I have had the site up since 2010 and sales have been steady however I receive a lot of bounce out's (meaning people come to the site but leave soon after) as porn searchers stumble across me then leave when they realize it's not a porn site. Go ask Alice is still the first site that comes up when someone searches for 'how do I have an orgasm during intercourse'. I am hopeful to surpass them in the listings, since as my marketing company agrees, when it comes to this e-book of mine there is really no competition for it. However, that being said, there are a lot of magazines, and blogs trying to give advice on having an orgasm. These outlets unfortunately fall short and thus was one of my reason's for writing the book. I remember being frustrated myself when I was looking for help. All I could find were thick books in bookstores. Right then and there, I'd stop in my tracks; just seeing a half inch thick book made me feel like the task at hand was impossible. I would pass on buying the book. After flipping through and realizing the amount of useless filler information that existed, I knew my searching would result in more frustration than help.

After I discovered, quite by accident, how to have an orgasm during intercourse without additional stimulation from hands, or vibrating sexual aids, I remember thinking to myself, "I should write the simple points down, and offer it to those who have still not found the way to climax during intercourse". It was many years later that I actually did write the book. I thought it would be a great e-book, and Much Better Than Chocolate - A woman's guide to achieving an orgasm through intercourse was born. I don't want to gouge anybody, so I kept the price of my e-book low, purposely, at $7.99. Someone who read it recently said I should charge 14.97. I think when you buy a paperback at a store, you're paying for the physical product, plus, my book is short at 28 pages. I know the information is invaluable if it helps someone to experience an orgasm during intercourse, however I want to keep it completely affordable.

I also received questions about how to have an orgasm with a partner alone. I then decided to write two other books: one for having an orgasm with your partner, and one for experiencing one on your own.

I find it sad that we live in a society which is so uptight when it comes to the topic. There are many young people who have to stumble around in the dark, discovering sexuality as they go along. Hopefully their drive hasn't been too wilted by our society's stifling sexual attitude so that they go forth and find great pleasure and joy in their own sexuality. And, here's to further wishing for them to find great partners who are as open, ready and willing to explore, discover and be comfortable with their sexual experiences. "Everybody comes" should be embraced as a sexual motto. Maybe I'll make that on a T-shirt. ; )

It must be frustrating for males when it comes to pleasing their partner's during intercourse. I know my first few partner's were just as frustrated as I was when it came to getting me to reach orgasm with sex alone. Let me tell you, it wasn't fun on my end either.

I am a very sexual person. Orgasm's are important to me and when I went to research the subject because I thought surely there must be an answer out there all I got were the very same answers out there today. Between 70 to 80 percent of women don't have an orgasm this way, so stimulate yourself during the act, or use toys or maybe just enjoy the act without expecting an orgasm. How utterly disappointing.

Then, the day came when I did a few things different while telling him to continue to do what he was doing. I persevered and finally had a breakthrough orgasm. Since then, I can orgasm every time and not just once. Multiple times. Sounds like a cheesy sales pitch but it's simply the truth. Women can orgasm during sex; I know–I'm one of them. From going through the first six years when I became sexually active and never having an orgasm during sex, to suddenly having one or more, I know of the frustrations. If I had of given up with the advice I received, I would still be sexually orgasm-less. I'm so thankful I persevered.

Hoping to help women out there who are frustrated the same way I was, I wrote it all down and created a small, to the point guide. If you care for more information on my story in further detail there's an interview link there as well at ww.climaxhelp.com.

For any couples or women out there that are frustrated because of lack of sexual orgasm, don't give up. We come into a world of little and no information on the act of sex because of the massive taboos surrounding it. Good luck.
Today I heard it again. Women don't have orgasm's during intercourse so just enjoy the act of making love and don't worry about your climax. I hope all seekers search for and find better information than what's generally available. You can orgasm during intercourse without the use of your hands or his hands, or a sexual vibrating aid. Don't give up on this idea if it's important to you. Visit climaxhelp.com for the guide.